Speaking AS a woman, I find this to be incredibly offensive, and especially what is stated above. Imagine the tables turned- you cheat on her, she breaks up with you, then wants to control your mind through music so you fall back in love with HER again. Would you not feel used and un-valued? I would find it incredibly sweet if this album you are trying to make had sweet lyrics, a piano sonata dedicated to me, or something similar. But the use of music as mind control to get my feelings back? It doesn't show that you love her- it shows that you view her as an object.
My two cents.