Right, I don't think we have any disagreements. Speaking of dry essays on the subject, I have a $120 book by George Perle which deals entirely with his use of set theory in his own music, presented in the most needlessly difficult language possible. Unsurprisingly, I put up with about half of it and it has been sitting on my shelf ever since (the only music text I've ever given up reading).
Anyways, to be fair to those that are interested, I'll leave this thread to the discussion presented in the OP.