Me too. :P hahah.
So, here's the deal.. I wonder if the forum format is just too big for what we are right now.
I'm a member of a few facebook composition/orchestration groups... I know this might not be optimal (though, I will say that this site seems to be fairly facebook integrated...), but you/we might consider moving to a facebook group where we share pieces by thread and review questions by thread. Instead of having a whole separate forum.
That's a VERY drastic thing, but I'm throwing out drastic options so we can scale them back and make them reasonable.
In fact, there probably should just be a more laid back space, where community is the main focus, and the music-talk is organic from it. This whole system of "reviewing" and "contests"... these all seem to be parts of a community that is 30-40-50 people large. Where it's hard to keep up with everything unless it's organized. I, honestly, don't see the problem with scaling the forum back to the way it was back in the day. There weren't as many categories, and the music was NOT at the top of the page.
Just some thoughts. I'm probably wrong. It's been a long time since I really put thought into the forum. My ideas might be outdated, but I like to think I have some out of the box theories that could work.