I know this is a pretty odd question and just the fact of thinking what music to put in your own funeral is weird, but I wanted to ask this question.
I would bring this five pieces in this order:
- Chopin prelude in C minor
Quite a dramatic way to start, but is a sad piece and full of beautiful contrasts
- Rachmaninov etude tableaux in g minor
The beautiful introspective melody of this etude with The barcarolle-like accompaniment makes it very emotional. This is specially beautiful when the high chords are introduced
-Rachmaninov moment musicaux in b minor
just by listening to the first 20 seconds of this piece you will understand why I put it here, it starts quite solemn, but then, the contrasting phrase makes you want to cry
-Bach prelude no 4 from book one of the well tempered clavier
Obviously, played in an unorthodox way with a piano instead of a harpsichord and with some pedal, this prelude can be beautiful and suitable for a funeral
-Rachmaninov prelude in B minor
Such a beautiful nostalgic piece, full of emotional harmonies and a powerful climax in the middle section, followed by a delicate cadenza and a “reprise” of the stillness of the beginning, and ending between major and minor
PS: the fact that I am thinking about what music to put in my funeral doesn’t mean that I am dying, it is just a mere consequence of my boredom