Thanks for the informative reply, I had a feeling I was a bit vague. I downloaded musoscore and while it does the basics I think I'm ultimately going to get finale. It has an amazing depth of features and I've used older versions in the past. Plus at the moment I have a flexible budget.
For the DAW, I guess I don't really know which one I want. I know that I want one that can sync up music and picture (VG soundtracks and effects, short films) and one that can be used alongside finale, meaning i record the basic tracks from finale into the DAW and then mix, add VST sounds, etc. I know Logic can do that, so if Digital Performer can't, then it's Logic.
The VST sounds are probably what I'm most ignorant about, at least beyond the GPO. I'll be making classical soundtrack pieces and more modern sounding techno-ish music (think smash bros). From your experience, what plug-ins and soundfonts gave you an interesting and/or unique sound? (this is asking both Cheeselord and anyone who's had a good or bad experience with certain plugins)
Again, thanks for your help. Talking to real people is always better than searching websites; most are either too bias or just as vague as I am.